Why should you get to know lotusman?

I'm an easy going guy that always tries to be thoughtful, kind and tries to put others first. I'm willing to help anybody,be flexible, and be there for others. I'm a
good listener and always try to see both points of view.I love a laugh and a joke and have a great sense of humour and wit. I can also be deep,loving,caring,passionate, sensible and serious.My spare time if you can call it spare,is normally spent helping friends with their classic cars. I also enjoy listening to a wide range of music from 60's,jazz,soul,right through to current chart artists, reading and watching classic comedies such as Blackadder, Porridge,Fast show,The Office and Carry on's.I've finally realised I've spent far to long not living life to the full,now is the time to change this and to spend more time relaxing and hopefully in time,enjoying the future with that special someone.

He describes his ideal match thus:

I'm hopefully looking for someone as a friend at first, and see what develops in time.Hopefully they will introduce me to new interests and experiences,and possibily share mine,but at the same time,be happy to have there own friends and independance. To help me learn to relax more,have a laugh with,a good sense of humour,be there when you need them through both the good and bad times. Somebody who is good listener, my soul mate, friend, but importantly to
be honest and faithful.At the end of the day though, I guess it all comes down to good old chemistry.